The truth-telling clarity session that finally moves the needle
A personalised Activation: laser insight,
practical next steps and the honest push you need to act
Holistic Coaching for Motherhood
You've promised yourself 'next week' a thousand times.
You were looking forward to the weekend, but you ended up driving everyone to activities you never wanted, packing lunches you'd much rather have eaten around the table at home and cheering them on while your own plans sit in your mental draft folder.
You snap at your husband for remembering the Frubes but forgetting the Greek yoghurt that you like, and later that night, you lie awake, furious at yourself for getting so upset about bloody yoghurt. But it wasn't really about the yoghurt. It's that it felt like a direct message: No one sees me. You know that’s not true, but that actually makes it worse.
Online Coaching for Mums
This is the moment you stop making promises you don’t keep.
This is where you draw your line in the sand:
The Turning Point
After supporting countless mothers to break patterns of people pleasing, dismantling perfectionist motherhood and reclaim their decision-making power, I've identified the exact patterns that keep intelligent, capable women repeating the same frustrating cycles.
Coaching for High-Achieving Mothers
It’s not about self care Sundays,
or better time management.
It's about addressing the invisible mental architecture that governs every decision you make, and learning to rebuild it. Intentionally.
That's exactly what my Alignment Compass Method does.
Here's what happens inside The Turning Point:You complete my signature Turning Point Reflection- questions I’ve refined over the last three years of private coaching- that pulls every corner of your life into view. Not another generic assessment, but the specific process I use to get to the heart of what's really going on with my private clients.
I read every word. Notice exactly what you share, and what you don't, then create your personalised 45-minute Turning Point Activation video, run through my Compass Alignment Method- the same approach that helped K stop being her own harshest critic:
She could give her kids the most loving pep talks about mistakes being lessons, but for herself? She was brutal. Seeing the confusion on her child's face when she called herself a 'fucking idiot' for a harmless mistake? That was her turning point. Things had to change. And they did. She's now her own biggest cheerleader and this has rippled out into other areas of her life in ways she could never have imagined. Now, taking exquisite care of herself just seems obvious, instead of something she used to feel guilty about.
You'll get my laser-focused insight into your specific boundary patterns, the exact next steps that fit your real life, and the loving truths you need to hear to stop spinning your wheels.
This isn't going to be the same response your bestie who you've been venting to in 8-minute voicenotes for the past 3 years would give you. You don’t need to just feel heard. You’ve got people in your life who give you that. This is guidance that actually moves the needle rather than just making you feel better for 5 minutes.
I’ve worked with enough strong-willed women- I am one, I’m raising one- to know the excuses you’re going to make, and the resistance you’re going to feel to some of my questions. You can keep being told what you want to hear, and life continues exactly like this. Or you can work through the sticky bits, with my support.
What Actually Changes?
Before:Your attention gets eaten by daily frictions: mental reruns of conversations, 47 tiny decisions that wear you down by lunchtime. That fog means less energy for work that matters, fewer creative sparks, almost no bandwidth for real connection.
After Your Turning Point:Mental clarity returns: Small slights stop hijacking half your afternoon.
- Another mum makes a passive-aggressive comment about your child's packed lunch, and instead of replaying it for the next 3 hours while you aggressively reorganize the kitchen cupboards, you think 'that's about her, not me' and get on with your day
Decision energy flows to what matters:
- You don't spend 45 minutes researching the 'best' lunch boxes on Amazon while your kids destroy the living room - you grab any lunch box and use those 45 minutes for the walk you actually wanted
Boundaries become automatic:
- You catch yourself about to fall down a 2-hour rabbit hole researching whether organic cotton bedsheets and a lambswool duvet will cure your child's sleep issues. You close the laptop, accept that their current sheets are fine, and head upstairs to give them an extra cuddle instead.
'Should' transforms into 'want':
- Your child's birthday party is next week. Instead of spending Sunday baking a Pinterest-worthy rainbow cake while your stress levels hit the ceiling, you order one from the supermarket. You use that Sunday afternoon to have a long bath, read a few chapters of your book, and mentally prepare for the chaos ahead. When party day arrives, you're calm and present instead of frazzled and resentful .
This isn't about doing more. It's about owning the mental space you've been giving away. When you make tiny, fierce changes in that space, they ripple straight into how your days feel.
Here’s what clients have shared about working together:
"Torie has the best energy. She makes you feel so held whilst gently spurring you on to take action towards your goals and dreams."
"Thank you for helping me refine and define my values. I had a big revelation on that today."
"A brilliant reminder that you can literally start at any time to make those small changes that all build momentum to work towards the bigger picture 😘! I loved it and I can already see the difference it is making ❤️"
"It has been grounding and it has had a positive effect on making changes & finding joy"
"It’s given me accountability. The gentle, firm version. 🙏 💙"
"Confidence building, clarity and space to be gently led through some complicated feelings."
Who is The Turning Point for?
You're a mother who is ready to make a change but you want expert eyes and a real person who's been there.
You've tried all the obvious routes: bought the colour-coded planners, scheduled time to yourself that doesn't seem to cut through the bone-deep exhaustion and therapy felt like a release but didn't get you all the way to creating the life you’ve been dreaming of.
Or maybe you're so deep in the day-to-day you can't see the wood for the trees, and you want someone to take your hand - someone who's walked this path, knows the mistakes that feel too embarrassing to admit because she's made them too - and will guide you to a more peaceful, grounded version of motherhood, with real space and ease.
You're done with quick fixes.
There is no 'mum hack' in the world that lets you avoid some of the deeper patterns that keep coming up for you.
So let’s try something different. How it works:
Book your Turning Point (limited spots each week)
Complete the Turning Point Reflection- focused questions that reveal your boundary patterns
Receive your private Activation within 3 working days: a personalised 45-minute video using my Compass Alignment Method
Watch, implement, return as needed—lifetime access means you can revisit whenever you need recalibration
Investment: £88
First 3 spots: £44
No live calls.
No wondering how to 'fit it in' to your packed schedule.
Take what you need and come back to your Turning Point Activation in your own time, as many times as you need.
Ready to stop crossing your own boundaries by default?
Client Story:
Family Frustrations
It’s a year on from supporting my client B, and she's still feeling the benefits of our work together every day.
Gatherings with the extended family were becoming more and more stressful, and not just for the 3 hours she was spending hosting a family barbecue. The undercurrent of tension and competition was starting to impact her relationship with her husband. B was completely out of alignment with her values around the kind of environment she wanted for her children.
B knew this wasn't the kind of environment she wanted to spend time in with her young children, but she also couldn't just 'let it go,' as her husband and friends would gently suggest. She'd tried that and when it didn't work, it just made her feel guilty for not being able to 'rise above it.' She was stuck in a pattern that felt impossible to break.
She knew that something had to change; she was ready to call time on the relentless replaying of irritating interactions over and over in her head. That's when we worked together using my Compass Alignment Method.
Once we lifted the lid on the defensiveness she felt, and how she was always braced for comparison or competition, I helped her realign with what actually mattered to her and flip the narrative on her 'annoying' in-laws.
No, they still don't agree on many things. But now, B holds compassion and kindness for her extended family, and she gets to raise her children in spaces that feel peaceful and respectful - completely aligned with her deeper values.
Life Coaching for Mothers: Client Testimonials
Hi, My Love. I’m Torie.Meet The Life Coach For Mums + Women
Integrative Coach + Changeworker With The Ethical Coaching Collective
Finding the confidence and conviction to follow my unique path in motherhood (and life!) has not been without its twists and turns along the way.
I’ve gone against the grain — like quitting alcohol in a bid to feel more connected (spoiler alert: it worked!) — while everyone around me seemed to be forging strong connections through the ‘ease’ of drinking.
I’ve spent time ‘in the void’ of not knowing if I’d ever find the soul sisterhood I yearned for – to do motherhood alongside. And yet, holding true to my values and following my intuition led to the spaces that felt right for ME.
I’m now here to help YOU find YOUR ANCHOR that lets you build a motherhood – and life – that feels right just for you.