DECIDED: Less in your head. More in your Life. 

It's kind of become the norm to talk about overthinking like it's just a thing we do. 

As mums. As millennials. As women wearing many hats. 

We have a whole lot of balls up in the air, and our proverbial plates are full to the brim. 

So, it's no wonder our brains are full too, right? 

Respectfully, my love. I disagree. 

I believe you can get ready for that drinks party without rehearsing scripts in your head, just to make sure you've got something interesting to say. 

And take off your make up that very same night thinking:  'That was fun. I'm so glad I gave her my number, I'm excited to hang out with her again!,' 

instead of picking apart the conversations you had after the fact, just to make absolutely sure that no one could have misunderstood what you meant, or heaven forbid been offended by your comments. 

Or how about if you could build a level of self trust that allows you to make decisions with speed and with ease? How would that feel?  

No more pros and cons lists. Going back and forth. No more just sleeping on it for one more night.

When you're stuck in indecision, playing out every possible scenario in your head, it feels impossible to 'just pick one'- whether it's a paint colour or a career change, because you're trying to find certainty in something that literally hasn't happened yet. 


Clarity doesn't come from more thinking. It comes from building unwavering self trust. 

You don't need to be completely sure of the decision. 

You need to be 100% sure of yourself.

Hi, I'm Torie. Motherhood coach for women who have been cracked open by motherhood but are refusing to subscribe to the martyred mother stereotype, and are claiming lives full of joy, freedom and fun.

Here's what I know: you cannot have any of that when you're living more in your head than in your actual life.

I spent a decade as a teacher, trained as a hypnobirthing instructor, and now I coach incredible mothers and host transformational retreats for a living. 

I have been shit scared of starting over more times than I can count. 

And I went ahead and did it anyway. 

Getting out of the "what ifs" and into "I've got this" is something I've had to do over and over. 

I'm still doing it. That's exactly why I know I can lead you there too.

I've coached dozens of mothers through relentless self-questioning and doubt, to feeling so deeply sure of themselves that they took bold, decisive action. Career changes, pay rises, huge shifts in their mental and physical health. 

All because they DECIDED they were ready.

I've been where you are now. Agonising over every decision and honestly spending months mulling over something that I should have decided on in a day. 

Focusing on thetiniestdetails of an interaction trying to figure out if there was anything wrong- was her tone off? was that a look?- or if it was my fault at all. 

And truth is? It's exhausting. 

Overthinking is the definition of sweating the small stuff, and I know you're ready to draw a line under that kind of behaviour, my love. 

Because think of the beautiful big blue sky thinking you get to do when you're not raking over old ground. 

The space that you create for yourself when you remove all the mental gymnastics you're doing every single day? 

It finally feels like the slower pace that you've been craving.

I made it to the other side of the noise. So did they. So can you.

Imagine finishing a conversation and just...moving on. 

No post-match analysis. No 3am replay. 

Making a decision on a Tuesday afternoon and not revisiting it on Wednesday. 

Feeling your own thoughts clearly again, not through the fog of everyone else's opinions, worst case scenarios, and what ifs.

That's what life looks like when you trust yourself.

And this is exactly what you're going to be creating for yourself when you apply the lessons I'm sharing next week in DECIDED. 

This kind of shift? Is MAJOR. 

And you've been led to believe that it takes months. Deep inner work. Understanding the why behind your patterns. 

It doesn't. It literally just needs you to make the decision, and move. 

Don't just take my word for it, here's what lands in my DMs....

These aren't women who did six months of therapy and a year-long journalling immersion. 

We had one conversation. One shift. And something clicked.

That's what DECIDED is designed to do-  in a week, in your pocket, in your own time.

Five days. Daily audio drops. Coaching that gets right to the heart of what you're struggling with. 

No live calls to fit around the kids. No staring at a screen.

You can plug in while you walk the dog, or on your daily drive. 

No lengthy modules to wade through. 

Just the exact approach that has helped my clients make career changes, back themselves in job interviews, get clear on what they need in their relationships and actually ask for it, stop shrinking and start living:  condensed, direct, and designed to actually move you forward. 

DECIDED 

🎙️ Access to a week’s worth Daily DEEP DIVE trainings in your dedicated decided Telegram group. Think of this as your private podcast where you get to plug into my tried and tested mindset shifts, honest reflections that I don't share anywhere online and have aha moments pinging in your brain left, right and centre. You have immediate access to the five day’s worth of training when you join, so you can decide to binge it in one morning, spread it over a week or go slow over a couple of weeks.

🎧 Listen in to personalised coaching in the Q&A thread. Specific scenarios shared by the live attendees of Decided, and my laser-focus coaching designed to support them in a whole range of areas of life that required them to feel strong, sturdy and Decided.

🗝️ Lifetime access to the trainings. The audio format means that you'll be able to revisit the trainings again and again, as and when you need a pep talk, or to tap into a new nugget of gold that you missed first, second, third time around. 

⏱️ Decided has been designed with deep intention, to fit easily into your life and support you to tap into the confidence and self concept you need to stop overthinking and start living. 

If you've been thinking about whether to grab this, whether you should or shouldn't dive in today...first up, how very overthinking of you, my love. 

Still on the fence and haven't quite made up your mind? 

It's time to start being the woman who is DECIDED. 

And it starts with taking this action. 

DECIDED

Officially the end of your overthinking era. It's time for next level self trust. It's time to be DECIDED. One week DEEP DIVE audio course.

Pay in full £111 or Two payments of £65*